TwinkleThrive

Never underestimate the power of a bruised woman. In her weakness lies her strength.

To forgive is divine but to forget is having amnesia. Forgiving and forgetting is not synonymous .

I just realised that people are different in so many way. What am I talking about? There are people whose life goal is to become president while others just want to be security personal standing by the gate side. Many desire to build mansions and have houses scattered across the globe while some just want to build a house and nothing more. While there is power tussle in an orgainsation and so many people are going diabolic just to be the next head of department there is this gentle man who is got all the qualifications to assume such position but he is not interested in any of it. Somehow this gentle man will be picked to head the department but because he is not interested he rejects such position. People are calling him names like someone who is not daring, someone who lacks responsibility and the ability to take charge. In your opinion, do you think the person lacks these qualities? Not every woman wants to be married, not every married couple want kids, not every l...

Why are you angry you were not informed? What if the person isn't comfortable with your presence? What if the person doesn't think you are an inner circle? You may not be important to them but you are sure important to others. Stop getting angry unnecessarily and channel your energy into more profitable vibes. Enough said.

The story of Bilyaminu Bello Haliru and Maryam broke the Nigerian cyber space yesterday. Maryam who allegedly murdered her husband by stabbing him on his chest, shoulder, a deep cut on his inner thigh, and many bite wounds on his stomach did so because she read a text from her husband phone. I do not and will never support violence of any kind. That Maryam is a woman does not exempt her from any punishment if found guilty. In my opinion justice must be served at least she must suffer the consequences of her sin. The story has always been husbands murdering their wife, yes, there are cases of wives murdering their husbands but it is more common with men because most times violence is attributed to strength. The stronger one overshadows the weaker one; it is always a case of manipulation, abusive words, deprivation of all sort and fear in which most times the husband has the upper hand. The brutality of Maryam’s evil deed to her husband is actually what is invasive. Wors...

Love: the euphoria of thinking about beautiful moment before you sleep and while in your dream land you are blessed with the vision of a happy couple conquering the world and all that stands to oppose it. Just at the break of the day your mind runs wild and you have this unexplained happiness because the one you love fills your heart. This feeling of love has caused a lot of people to be happy that they have reached the climax of life because the one they love stood with them all through. However, this cannot be said for those whose feeling of love has generated to hatred and bitterness. Love is in all shades of joy at the same time all shades of destruction. It depends on how every individual decide to react to it. I have heard and seen love stories that ended in fragment of hatred, bitterness and revenge. The sad issue is, we all know when it begins but where it would lead no one can tell. I keep asking… what gives in to hatred when love has been expressed initially?...

PEOPLE: This is the season of thanksgiving, so I will say this is coming handy. I am so blessed, when I count my blessings they are mainly measured in people. there is a yoruba adage  that says "eni yan laso" meaning "Humans are our covering." I may have been disappointed in people, people  I thought will help blow dust from my eyes were the ones who actually added pepper, I mean lot of pepper. yet these few cannot out number the many beautiful people in my life. These beautiful minds give me reasons to be a better person, they inspire and motivate the greatness I see before me. With them it is difficult to be sad, they always always make me count my blessings. My people are a reflection of me, always reminding me that relationship is beyond money, greed and lies but a bond of love, care and integrity. Even as the recession is biting hard, I would rather reflect on the gift of people. All I feel is gratitude that I have people to love, care , appreciate and sh...